Good vibes only

March 10, 2016

Have you ever felt like your life is such a mess that you are willing to give up on everything?

How many times have you said these words “I can’t do it or I don’t want to do it, I won’t be able to make it or I will never achieve it..”

How many times have you questioned the universe “Why is this happening to me? Why can’t I be like that? Why do I deserve this?”

Now question yourself, “What have I done to change this to make a better impact on my life?”

All too often your own fears stop you from going where you need to go. If you keep doing what you’ve always been doing then you’ll keep getting what you’ve always been getting. If you want to be a singer, photographer, dancer, model, blogger or even a lawyer, keep going in that path that you’re going because eventually one day you will become one. Being who you want to be and doing what you want to do in life is simply ‘self-respect’. You have found your true purpose in life, all you have to do now is hold on to that thought, faith and consistently work at it. However in order to see the path to what you want, you must first clearly see what is holding you back. We all have a past, whether its good or bad. We’re all humans, we go through experiences and make mistakes, but we can all learn from our mistakes. Let go of unnecessary attachments. You will see that you pick up speed in heading towards your goal.

If you want to change your life, you have to be ready to see and feel some painful truths. Remind yourself when you’re going through tough situations that you’re not the only one in this ride. It’s just life. You’re not singled out to suffer, to feel pain, to be disappointed. Everyone on this planet experiences major disappointments and pain. Don’t expect too much, out of yourself or anyone… we live in a world of uncertainty. Life isn’t a race because it doesn’t matter how fast you get there if you’re heading in the wrong direction, right?

The tiniest action can set off a chain of larger reactions.

Work + Time + Faith = Results!

Resist the temptation of giving up even when your hoped-for goal doesn’t seem to show up. Never compromise on your dreams! Everything has a process , remember to respect the process. Live now and procrastinate later!



Dee ♥


  • Reply Naomi ( Twitter: imaon_) March 10, 2016 at 5:09 pm

    You will not remember me but I attended Birmingham university when you attended BCU and we had a few interactions on my (old) social media. I was friends with people who were friends with Celeste. In Birmingham I remembered how you caught my attention; there was just something about you. I was intreagued by your looks and the warmth you displayed online. I am so happy to see where you are now. It has made me realise that I seem to have a gift for noticing special, significant people, with a particular energy as there have been others whose energy I was strangely attracted to, and who are now doing great thing!

    I wish you MORE success, more love, more happiness and more peace of heart, mind and soul. Continue to vibrate beauty and humbleness.


    Nae xxxxx

    • Reply Desthydee May 12, 2016 at 1:15 am

      Hi Nae, thank you so much for the lovely message & the positive vibe! I truly appreciate it. Stay blessed x

  • Reply TAYLOR FEIGN March 11, 2016 at 5:37 pm

    This was truly inspiring! This actually made my day Desthydee…you are truly an illuminated individual, these words of wisdom you displayed were accurate and influential. I have Big DREAMS and I will never give up but sometimes things get hard and that’s what you actually addressed in your speech…I’m proud of you forreal you have influenced Taylor Feign May The LORD bestow Blessings on your Life a thousandfold. -Taylor Feign, IG: @taylorfeign

    • Reply Desthydee May 12, 2016 at 1:13 am

      You are too kind, I appreciate that so much thank you

  • Reply Elinah May 12, 2016 at 12:18 am

    beautifully written!

    • Reply Desthydee May 12, 2016 at 1:12 am

      Thank you!

  • Reply Belle November 11, 2016 at 8:48 pm

    Dear desthydee

    I read your blog and really left feeling inspired, empowered and renewed. Thanks for reminding me of the magic of this universe! I’m ready to conquer my day!

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